Viciousness
Yesterday afternoon was hell due to some sorry ass individual who had nothing better to do than make someone’s life miserable.
Meet Jon … a disgruntle ex-friend.
About two months back I need financial help. I turned to Jon. In return for his assistance he insisted that I would have to sleep with him. I refused and informed Jon that he was no longer welcomed in my home. With this I thought I had resolved a problem and haven’t heard from him until yesterday.
Jon unexpectedly showed up. After a bit of chit-chat he proceeded to tell me that I was ignorant and stupid for trusting my buddy … that the two of them had spoken on line, that I was being used, that my buddy wasn’t the friend he claimed to be, and it would be in my best interest to dump him. It wasn’t pretty!
Here I am sitting on my front deck in tears, Jon’s talking his shyt, and Sumo’s barking … trust me, it wasn’t pretty! And by time our conversation was over, I was so angry with Jon that as I sat across from him the only thing I wished, as horrible as this may sound, that he would drop dead … I was seeing blood. As a result, I text a very hateful message to my buddy then sat down and balled my soul out. Jon might as well have driven a stake into my heart!
Well, I spoke with my buddy and evidently Jon emailed a degrading message to him … stating that he would take me away from my buddy. That my buddy was a piece of shyt, etc. Come to find out, the two never spoke on line. Yes, my buddy was on line, but the two never exchanged messages. Jon fabricated a lie!
Later in the evening I received the following emails from Jon:
Email One:
“I apologize for the how I had to tell what I know. The man, as you claim him to be, is emotionally using you and cares less about you. Yes, he may be there for you, on personal level, he is just using you. And how I told you wasn't exactly nice either. I showed you where he was, you defended him, you are a sucker! Dump the man phil! I'll be there for you.”
“If you want to talk, call or email me,” -jon
Email Two:
“I did send "the man" an email telling him that you and spoke.” -jon
I tell you, I don’t get it! I don’t understand why someone would take the time to concoct a story that was nothing more than a pure ass lie!
First and foremost, why would I want to be with a man that would try and seduce me in exchange for his help … talk about being used! Secondly, why would I want to be with someone who would tear down a friend and accuse him of something that never happened? I mean, how infantile can one get? Now I feel REALLY stupid … can we say pissed? I feel emotionally taken advantage of and this literally pisses me the hell off! How VICIOUS can one get to stoop so low to gain my trust … NOT!
My buddy and I will be seeing each other this evening.
Yesterday afternoon was hell due to some sorry ass individual who had nothing better to do than make someone’s life miserable.
Meet Jon … a disgruntle ex-friend.
About two months back I need financial help. I turned to Jon. In return for his assistance he insisted that I would have to sleep with him. I refused and informed Jon that he was no longer welcomed in my home. With this I thought I had resolved a problem and haven’t heard from him until yesterday.
Jon unexpectedly showed up. After a bit of chit-chat he proceeded to tell me that I was ignorant and stupid for trusting my buddy … that the two of them had spoken on line, that I was being used, that my buddy wasn’t the friend he claimed to be, and it would be in my best interest to dump him. It wasn’t pretty!
Here I am sitting on my front deck in tears, Jon’s talking his shyt, and Sumo’s barking … trust me, it wasn’t pretty! And by time our conversation was over, I was so angry with Jon that as I sat across from him the only thing I wished, as horrible as this may sound, that he would drop dead … I was seeing blood. As a result, I text a very hateful message to my buddy then sat down and balled my soul out. Jon might as well have driven a stake into my heart!
Well, I spoke with my buddy and evidently Jon emailed a degrading message to him … stating that he would take me away from my buddy. That my buddy was a piece of shyt, etc. Come to find out, the two never spoke on line. Yes, my buddy was on line, but the two never exchanged messages. Jon fabricated a lie!
Later in the evening I received the following emails from Jon:
Email One:
“I apologize for the how I had to tell what I know. The man, as you claim him to be, is emotionally using you and cares less about you. Yes, he may be there for you, on personal level, he is just using you. And how I told you wasn't exactly nice either. I showed you where he was, you defended him, you are a sucker! Dump the man phil! I'll be there for you.”
“If you want to talk, call or email me,” -jon
Email Two:
“I did send "the man" an email telling him that you and spoke.” -jon
I tell you, I don’t get it! I don’t understand why someone would take the time to concoct a story that was nothing more than a pure ass lie!
First and foremost, why would I want to be with a man that would try and seduce me in exchange for his help … talk about being used! Secondly, why would I want to be with someone who would tear down a friend and accuse him of something that never happened? I mean, how infantile can one get? Now I feel REALLY stupid … can we say pissed? I feel emotionally taken advantage of and this literally pisses me the hell off! How VICIOUS can one get to stoop so low to gain my trust … NOT!
My buddy and I will be seeing each other this evening.
Hey Friend,
ReplyDeleteLike I've told you before, you've got to be so careful with whom you associate, specially in Myrtle Beach. The "community" is a vicious place that even I stay as far away as possible.
Philip, I know that you have a good heart, that you would, at all cost, protect your friends, and that you trust with sincerity. I admire these qualities of yours, thus I'm so proud to be friends. I know that I can trust you with my life as I yours.
Unfortunately, there are so many who are out to take advantage of anyone that lives life with such positive qualities as you have, while at the same time try and destroy them. Therefore, please, be careful! You're a good man. Don't let anyone make you feel any different or cause you to loose what I find to be honorable in any human being.
If I might suggest, get a restraining order of protection?
Your Friend,
Bob
Philip... I SO wish you could move closer to me and Lou.. Where do these people come from!?!?!? I agree with what Bob said.. a restraining order may be a good idea although I don't know if they would give one or if they would see it as grounds for one but I can tell you I don't like the "motives" of this Jon person and I DONT trust him.. Please stay safe. PLEASE be careful in who you talk to and PLEASE let me know whenever it would be possible for you to move closer to me and Lou.. I am worried about you...I will try and call tomorrow.. I've been sick so I haven't been up to much but will try and call you in the am..
ReplyDeleteMuch Love
Robyn
xoxo
Hey Dude!
ReplyDeleteI've had several bad experiences here in Myrtle Beach with the "community" as you put it. I had one dude follow me for weeks. The other, broke into my house. Both were caught and when asked as to why, their answer was because I had refused their advances.
You've got to be extremely careful bud. Choose your friends carefully, very carefully!