Do you have someone in your life that is SOOOO busy that you eventually give up on them?
An individual who thinks themselves to be so important lives a very narcissistic lifestyle. Sadly, they tend to ignore what’s most important in their life … friends, partners, and family. They focus more on what will make them feel important in someone else’s eyes rather than being important in someone’s life. Thus, having a relationship with such an individual can often lead to a very frustrating and lonely one.
Understandably, there are times life gets busy and certain things and individuals have to be placed on the back burner. On the other hand, no one is that busy … ABSOLUTELY NO ONE! The only one busier than you or I is God, and yet He takes the time to tend to our needs on a one to one basis. Therefore, if anyone has an “I’m so busy” excuse, that title belongs solely to God. Thankfully, this isn't the case with Him. As for the rest of us … majority of the time there’s really no excuse!
Life is short. We are not going to be around forever. Those who are important in our lives, whether it be a friend, partner or family, being SOOOO busy is not an option. Yes, we all get caught up with life’s many demands and we may feel that the other persons moment of need or request for attention can wait till we can get to them. But by the time you get back to them, it may be to late.
The next time someone in your life reaches out to you and you might be caught up with life stop what you're doing and reach out. What is pressing at the moment will always be there waiting for you when you return. Your friends, partners and family members are more important than any business you might have.
An individual who thinks themselves to be so important lives a very narcissistic lifestyle. Sadly, they tend to ignore what’s most important in their life … friends, partners, and family. They focus more on what will make them feel important in someone else’s eyes rather than being important in someone’s life. Thus, having a relationship with such an individual can often lead to a very frustrating and lonely one.
Understandably, there are times life gets busy and certain things and individuals have to be placed on the back burner. On the other hand, no one is that busy … ABSOLUTELY NO ONE! The only one busier than you or I is God, and yet He takes the time to tend to our needs on a one to one basis. Therefore, if anyone has an “I’m so busy” excuse, that title belongs solely to God. Thankfully, this isn't the case with Him. As for the rest of us … majority of the time there’s really no excuse!
Life is short. We are not going to be around forever. Those who are important in our lives, whether it be a friend, partner or family, being SOOOO busy is not an option. Yes, we all get caught up with life’s many demands and we may feel that the other persons moment of need or request for attention can wait till we can get to them. But by the time you get back to them, it may be to late.
The next time someone in your life reaches out to you and you might be caught up with life stop what you're doing and reach out. What is pressing at the moment will always be there waiting for you when you return. Your friends, partners and family members are more important than any business you might have.
The simple act of letting someone know they are important might make all the difference in the world cause you never know, that one small deed may be the last act of kindness you may bestow up the person whom you may have thought about putting on the back burner.
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